Female Supremacy Marriage

Scheduled Spanking

2010-12-19T20:16:00.002+11:00

Greetings Mistresses and fellow sissies,
It has been more than three months since our last post and during that time my Mistress has completed her education for this year and is now ‘free’ to train me further (the training I look forward to in fear and excitement...) in submission.
Although I have tried to be submissive to my Mistresses demands during the last few months, my Mistress has told me that She is not satisfied with my current level of submission (I have had a lot of ‘free time’ as my ‘training’ was suspended due to Her educational commitments). I have been warned about the upcoming punishment spanking and have been ‘advised’ to improve quickly in order not to increase my punishment.
As required I do change into my sissy clothes when I come home from work and have been doing my assigned household chores (but not to my Mistress standards...and hence the scheduled punishment).

I am really feeling nervous about the spanking as the hairbrush does hurt and my Mistress has promised a full three months worth of spankings this month. I will really try my best to be obedient during the holidays. On a good note my Mistress has promised me more new skirts as Christmas presents if I behave :)
I will be off now to do the dishes and will blog later if Mistress allows.
Humble curtsey
Sissy Nisha

2010-08-29T22:00:00.005+10:00

Hello dear readers,
My sissy husband's new (revised) rules and punishments are in the pictures. Please comment on them and let me know of more ways I could ensure his complete obedience as he is still naughty at times. I have also attached a picture of his in his new apron.
Take care all
Luv
Mistress April

Getting Used To Skirts

2010-08-29T20:24:00.001+10:00

Greetings Mistresses and fellow sissies,
It has been a while since me and my Mistress has posted on the blog. We have been busy with our house move and my Mistress’s educational commitments. We were just browsing the net over the weekend and found an increase in the number of Female Dominant blogs on the nets. Obviously the Women are certainly (although slowly for my liking) are taking over...
I am slowly and surely feeling content in a subservient role in the house and now that we have settled in our new place I have been put back in skirts and of course my chastity belt (I was allowed to wear male attire for fixing jobs around the house and dealing with tradesman working in the house). It is so good to see (on the internet) that more and more males are coming out and showing their submissive feminine side and more Women asserting their rightful authority over us sissy males.
To go along with the move to our new place, Mistress has now issued a new set of rules for me to follow and has also come up with a list of punishments to ensure my obedience (My Mistress will be putting the revised set of Rules and Punishments in her post soon. There is also some ‘bitter-sweet’ news (sort of bitter for me and great for my Mistress) as my Ma’am Sister-in-Law (I have been told to refer to her as Ma’am) is moving in to our city. As mentioned before in the blog, She knows about our ‘arrangement’ and approves of my subservient position in our house. My Mistress is very excited as She will be having her dear Sis around to do all things sisters (Women) do together (Shopping!), but I am a lit bit scared as Ma’am as She has seen my bad macho behaviour during her earlier over a year ago and now supports my feminization and domestic servitude, She has also threatened me with exposure if I don’t obey my Mistress in any way...
I better finish off here as I have to do some house chores (I must say that Mistress sometimes helps me with the housework, although when I end up doing the whole lot on days when my Mistress is busy with her work it does get tiring as house work is never done!)
Humble Curtsey
Sissy Nisha
P.S. Mistress has read this posting and has approved to be published on the blog and has requested readers to engage in good genuine discussions on Female Domination in Marriage.

Greetings for 2010

2010-01-16T19:05:00.003+11:00

Dear Mistresses and sissies,

We Wish You All A Fantastic 2010.

My Mistress instructed me to write in a few lines about what we have been up to...It has been a short Christmas for us as we have been both busy with our work leading up to the holidays...and this has (thankfully) left me off some sissy time ... (although my Mistress is now making sure I am in petticoats pretty much every day after work). It is not always so fancy being a sissy as there is so much housework to be done!

I have been told that I will be receiving my spankings this weekend for my casual masculine behaviour (show-off) in public. My Mistress has also instructed me to get in touch with other sissy housemaids to learn more about sissy submission and behaviour. If any of you sissies read this blog please contact me (with permission from your respective Mistresses – for those who are already enslaved) so we could have a chat/emails about pleasing our Mistresses.

On the home front, I am busy with housework and I am grateful that Mistress does help me with the cooking at times. I have also been gifted my own maid uniforms – one traditional black and one sissy pink. The uniforms are very practical (not the fancy ones...) and are very helpful in reinforcing my role as a sissy housemaid. The good thing is that I have been out of my chastity cage for a while but the threat of being caged again is constant and I may end up being put back in the cage this weekend (Yes My Mistress has been very lenient with me for the past few months...) My Mistress has attached a picture of me in my black self designed housemaid maid uniform for your viewing (The two maid uniforms need to be altered to fit my size and so I am not wearing them yet).

During some free time, I have also been reading some wonderful blogs on Female Superiority and sissy lifestyle to learn more about my requirements as a sissy maid. As we read more blogs, I will add them to our blogs links list.

I am still getting used to sissy servitude and am very scared at times of the punishments and the threat of publicity of my sissy life (to my family).

I sincerely look forward to your comments and some good chat with sissy friends. Also My Mistress has requested if any of the Mistresses out there would like to share ideas about managing sissy males.

Humble Curtsey
Nisha

Change of blog name

2009-09-30T20:49:00.004+10:00

Dear Readers,

It’s been some time since I blogged. Instead nisha has been doing her part by blogging about our progress – I’m pleased.

Now that I am working, we are making Fem/dom lifestyle fit into our busy and tiring schedule. Well to be frank, for about a month or so we were just trying to adjust to our new schedule with both of us working. However now that we have understood and adjusted to the working lifestyle, nisha and I are adding the flavour of Fem/dom into our lifestyle. (“,)

She’s been getting her spankings for misbehaviour and still there’s lot of room for improvement – at times she still shows her dominance by raising her voice or ordering me instead with a touch of irritation showing in her voice. I have also noticed she loves admiring herself and wants me to take as many photos of her as possible. Yesterday she is allowed only 40 minutes of internet usage as a punishment for yesterday’s misbehaviour instead of the usual 1 hour. However, she exceeded and today she’s banned from using internet! And she was spanked 20 spanks for every 1 minute exceeded.

Apart from our lifestyle, if any of you might have noticed we have changed the title of blog to FEMALE SUPREMACY MARRIAGE – reason being we want to make this blog to be easily searchable on google. We promise to be more frequent in our blogging.

Do leave your comments and thanks for being patient with us and for all your comments and encouragement.

Love,
Mistress April

A Feeling And A Confession

2009-09-28T21:33:00.003+10:00

Hello Dear Mistresses and sissies,

Today I came home a little early and as required I showered and changed into my house dress, applied a light make-up and got ready to greet my Mistress back from work.

As I was waiting for the door bell to ring, a thought came to my mind; wasn’t it not that long ago that my Mistress Wife with a submissive smile used to wait for me to come home from work (this was before that day when I got cleverly tricked into submission by my Mistress Wife and Ma’am Sis-In-Law)... This thought just brought a hidden desire to be all the more submissive to the Female Gender as they indeed are the rightful rulers of us males...And here I am all dressed up (and aproned) waiting for my Mistress to come home ( as a sissy should).

Also, I would like to make a little confession...I am more scared of my Ma’am Sister-In-Law than my Mistress Wife...My Ma’am Sister-In-Law is younger than us but has a very commanding presence and a sweet-hot temper to match... oops! (I might get a lecture for this)...I have been at the receiving end of her temper once and trust me I don’t want to be in that situation again. Also She has the original copy of my ‘slave contract’ with her along with some of my photos in my finery as a guarantee for my good submissive behaviour. She and my Mistress have a very good sisterly understanding which is great to see.

Humble Curtsey
Nisha

Back in Skirts

2009-09-27T19:54:00.009+10:00

Greetings Mistresses and fellow sissies,

As my Mistress stated in the recent blog, I have been put back in skirts for more housework. Although it scares me to wear skirts (afraid of other people catching me all dressed up) I also feel at peace with myself, not having to pretend to be the macho aggressive male (which I am when I wear male clothes) as our patriarchal society dictates.

I am still learning to be the perfect housemaid my Mistress wants me to be, but sometimes my macho pride gets in the way and I feel the urge to fight for my independence. My Mistress is learning to handle my tantrums (and my macho pride) very well and after a good ‘punishment session’ (I was recently spanked very hard for showing my macho attitude to my Mistress) I am reduced to sissy servitude again (believe me, there’s not much will power left in a male once he is dressed in skirts...).

I am ‘allowed’ some time on the internet to read and learn more about being a good sissy hubby and recently came across a wonderful site http://peggysue.gynosupremacy.net/ about Mistress Peggy Sue and her Matriarchal Family. It would be so wonderful if we all live the Matriarchal way that Mistress Peggy Sue has imposed in her household.

Please also comment on the pictures with me in my house dresses (and added ‘Jewellery’ for compliance).

My Mistress has also directed me to talk about the ‘maid sketch’ I did for the blog. I have always loved to draw and this blog gives me the opportunity (and my Mistress’s way of keeping me busy in my ‘free’ time) to express my ideas/beliefs in drawings/cartoons. Please feel free to comment on the drawings.

Humble request to all ‘Dear Mistresses’ out there; please guide my Mistress Wife to assume complete control over me and turn our home into a Matriarchal household.

It would be nice to talk to other sissy housemaids and share experiences/ideas of making our Female Superiors happy and satisfied.

Humble Curtsey
Nisha.

Few thoughts - FLR realtionship & punishments

2009-07-16T15:56:00.009+10:00

Dear readers,

As promised in the previous blog, I would like to highlight few issues I think would help the beginner FLR couples and on punishments. I’m not an expert but I have come up with few things that might be considered when entering such a lifestyle.

Just few weeks back, nisha emailed my sister to confess few things that were on her mind and also promised to change herself to the better. My sister’s reply was quite surprising and wonderfully pleasant to read. Her being still single and having to write such a mature email regards to FLR relationship was delightful. I would like to share few things highlighted by her in the mail on this blog. Hope this will help few of the new FLR couples, especially to the subs who would like to seriously want their Goddess (wife’s) to be dominant. Here are few pointers which I believe must be taken into consideration.

Whatever advice your Mistress gives, you MUST listen to her now on in regards to ANY issue.I believe a woman thinks with her heart for the good of her husband and kids when coming to a decision unlike selfish males like you think about oneself!
Every advice to be heeded by the sub and every need to be begged from your Mistress by you (i.e: financially). My opinion would be that you depend on her money completely.
Take her out on weekends or pamper her with massages or takeover the kitchen on weekends cooking her favourites. Show her that it’s her needs and pleasures that comes first before yourself.
You can only achieve your submissiveness through being completely giving up your ego and completely listening to her every word and respecting her as a Goddess.
I believe sub needs to always be in skirts except one or 2 days in a week when both of you need a small break – however, that is only when your Mistress tells you to do so. And just because you’re not in skirts does not give you any right to raise your volume and your ego!
Punishments must be carried out every weekend or if necessary on days he portrays bad behaviour – spankings, corner time and any necessary unpleasant practice to be imposed on the sub. After finishing your corner time, report to your Mistress on how you can be a better sissy, must be creative with your suggestions. No repeated suggestions.

Note: This point makes sure your sub’s mind is not wandering while she/he is having corner time.

Definition of punishment:
Punishment is the practice of imposing something unpleasant or aversive on a person or animal, usually in response to disobedience, defiance, or behavior deemed morally wrong by individual.
Thus carry out punishments that your sub dislikes, so she/he will be very careful about making any mistakes! This will surely help towards improving towards perfection.

Well, I will end here for now. Dear readers do leave your comments on encouraging my dear nisha with her drawings. And do watch out for the time table that I have come up for Nisha soon in the next blog.

Love,
Mistress April

Nisha's drawing

2009-07-03T17:45:00.006+10:00

Dear readers,

Its been sometime since we blogged. Thanks for emailing and your lovely comments. Do please continue to email and leave comments. Truely gives us more encouragement to carry on with FLR lifestyle. Apologies if I or my maid may not be able to reply to emails immediately but be sure that we will email in you in detail regards to any issues about FLR.

Here's the colours added from the previous drawing.

Beautiful isn't it? Will be blogging more on the updates. She has been getting out of hand and needs very severe punishment.

In the next blog, I would like to highlight few things that might help FLR relationship couples. Look forward to that. :) Hoping to find more like minded couples.

Love,

Mistress April

Punishment ideas

2009-06-11T21:16:00.007+10:00

Hello Mistresses and sissies,

I have been silly again and forgot ‘my place’ yesterday and now my Mistress wants to implement a strict punishment. My Mistress has ordered me to kindly request you dear readers for some ‘good’ punishment methods to be used on me.

Although I am scared to type this blog, I have no choice as I do not want to be spanked more (I was spanked hard before I was ordered to type this blog). I guess, I am feeling the reality of sissy servitude!

Here is a picture of me having corner time after my spanking.

Humble Curtsey
Nisha

Back to servitude

2009-06-10T18:53:00.006+10:00

Greetings Mistresses and fellow sissies,

As my Mistress stated in the recent blog, I have been put back in skirts for more housework. Although it scares me to wear skirts (afraid of other people catching me all dressed up) I also feel at peace with myself, not having to pretend to be the macho agressive male (which I am when I wear male clothes) as our patriarchal society dictates.

I am still learning to be the perfect housemaid my Mistress wants me to be, but sometimes my macho pride gets in the way and I feel the urge to fight for my independence. My Mistress is learning to handle my tanturms (and my macho pride) very well and after a good ‘punishment session’ (I was recently spanked very hard for showing my macho attitude and my Mistress has attached some of the pics of my punishment) I am reduced to sissy servitude again (believe me, there’s not much will power left in a male once he is dressed in skirts...).

My Mistress has also directed me to talk about the ‘maid sketch’ I did for the blog. I have always loved to draw and this blog gives me the opportunity (and my Mistress’s way of keeping me busy in my ‘free’ time) to express my ideas/beliefs in drawings/cartoons. Please feel free to comment on the drawings.

It would be nice to talk to other sissy housemaids and share experiences/ideas of making our Female Superiors happy and satisfied.

Humble Curtsey,

Nisha

Back to FLR

2009-06-07T17:39:00.012+10:00

Dear Readers,

To begin with, thank you for waiting patiently for my blog to start again and certainly for your sincere comments. My apologies on taking so long to blog again. It’s been a long time since my last post. Having to move to another state and being visited by our family and friends held us busy for past few months. It was totally hectic. Anyways now that we have settled down a little, it’s time to get back on track and start training my dear maid.

First of all, I hope you remember as mentioned in one of earlier blog, I had named my maid as natasha. However, after having a small conversation with my dear maid about her thoughts, I have decided on nisha as her new name. Dear readers, please be noted that she will be addressed as nisha hence forth. I feel this is more feminine and her response is better to this name as well.

My in-laws just left yesterday as such today I made nisha dress into her beautiful dresses and took few photos of her. Check out the pictures below. There is a spanking section later in the day due to her misbehaviour in the past few weeks when my family & friends were here. I have made her spend more time with me today. Had her fold the washed clothes and put them nicely away. And even made her draw something for me. I recently found out from my father-in-law that she used to like drawing when she was young and that was one of the hobbies she loved. I want to get her into at least one hobby since she has NONE now. Something that would make her mind relax. Here is the picture she drew. I will upload the same picture with colours soon. I will also have her blog on her thoughts about the drawing. Please do leave your comments and suggestions.

Having spent some time with nisha's friends I have learnt lots more about nisha which I took them for granted, i.e.: her liking for drawing and wood construction kit. I’m sure you guys must be wondering how would this help in her training. I find that she just doesn’t rest her mind even after coming back from work and she gets temperamental and moody ever so often. Thus I feel that when she’s back home, if she does something that keeps his mind busy and yet relaxed, she would change for the better.

I am determined to make her a fun loving person and to enjoy life instead of being tensed and worried about every single matter in life.

Here is something that I have been seriously thinking about for some time now - I would like to find and interact with likeminded couples with this life style and organise a small group whereby we could even meet up as a small group in the future with our dear slaves. If any Fem/dom couples are in Australia or any Indian couples with this lifestyle, do please feel free to email us on mistressrules@gmail.com. It would be a pleasure to meet likeminded couples nearby and to keep in touch.

I am trying to get a job for months now but in vain. I feel that my self esteem is going low being at home. I hope I get a job soon by God’s grace. Dear readers do please pray for me, I don’t want to lose my self-confidence right now. I feel that my confidence and strength is only factor that keeps my dear maid in her place.

I guess I will stop here for today, do please leave your comments and suggestions. Thanks again for your patience and looking forward to blog more on our lifestyle.

Love,
Mistress April

Will be back soon...

2009-03-13T08:09:00.006+11:00

Dear Readers,

It's been quite a long time since I last blogged. I'll start blogging again soon. As we have moved to a new a state, it's been hectic and the other reason which I'll soon reveal..

Please do keep visiting my blog for updates. Something new and exciting is sure to pop up here.. ;)

Do keep posting your comments. Be sure to get back my response to them...thank you to those who have been looking forward to more posts.

Take care
Love,
Mistress April

Humbled again!

2008-12-14T11:20:00.003+11:00

Hello everyone...humble apologies for not writing-in for a while, we were (happily) busy hosting my sister-in-law who came for a visit to Australia.

I have been fighting to stay away from skirts for the last two months or so...and was almost successful...but recent events and my Mistresses careful planning have almost ended my hopes of being the ‘man-of-the-house’ again...and here I am again in my housemaid uniform ready to serve my clever Mistress.

Since my sister-in-law’s visit few weeks back, I have been able to (proudly) wear my male clothes...unaware (carefree) about the consequences, I started acting the macho male in front of my sister-in-law (and my Mistress) fully confident that my Mistress would not mention our ‘little secret’ to her sweet sister. I guess my behaviour must have come to a point where I may have crossed the line and fell right into the trap...

Just two days before my sweet sister-in-law was planned to leave us, my Mistress planned to give me a ‘good night’ (we hadn’t slept together since my sister-on-law’s visit...I had been sleeping on the couch...) I was so excited that I also agreed to wear a skirt and blouse for the night (having being assured by my sweet Mistress that her sister was tired and had retired early to bed) I confidently sat on the couch in all my feminine finery only to seen by my sweet sister-in-law...

To cut the story short...I was given the ultimatum to surrender my ‘stupid male pride’ and embrace feminization at the hands of my Mistress...I was tricked (by Superior Female wit...I must admit) to sign a ‘slave contract’ which was ‘witnessed’ by my sister-in-law stating my new status as the housemaid in our house. My photos taken earlier by my Mistress were also shown to my sister-inlaw (who I must now address as ‘Ma’am’) ...My sister-in-law (Ma’am) has taken the original signed contract with her along with some of my photos dressed as the housemaid as an incentive for me to abide by the contract...I have also been chastised until further notice.

I will write more(when my Mistress commands me...) about my current situation...I only have one word of caution to husbands out there - never show off your male pride as it may come and bite you in the future...

Good wishes for Christmas...take care.

Natasha (I have renamed ‘Natasha’...to amplify my housemaid status)

Natasha's - New name

2008-12-11T15:41:00.009+11:00

Apologies for the delay in posting for November issue. Thanks to all the wonderful comments, they sure build up more confidence to make fem/dom work for us. Please continue to leave behind your comments.

I had a good long vacation and few interesting incidents have occurred over these 6 to 7 weeks.
After I returned from my vacation, my sister joined us for 3 weeks. Those 3 weeks were wonderfully memorable!

During her stay, I gave much freedom to my hubby as I didn’t want to reveal our little secret to her. However, my pretty little maid was getting out of hand and was behaviour like a total male chauvinist, showing his male ego and irritating to the core. Even my sister hated his behaviour while he was showing his temper and irritation for no particular reason. I was so frustrated that he left me with no choice but to put him in his rightful place rather harshly.

In those 3 weeks, I introduced my sister to Fem/Dom and Petticoated Disciplinary and also revealed quite a few snaps of my hubby dressed in skirts. She was fascinated and loved the idea of fem/dom. I remember her saying several times “He’s looks like a doll! Very cute!”

On 3rd December last year my hubby and I met for the 1st time face-to-face. Hence this year, I decided to give him an unforgettable gift which he would remember his whole life! My sister pretended to feel tired and went off to bed early. And I on the other hand, made my hubby to dress into skirts for that special day (3rd Dec ‘08) to give me some pleasure as it had been over a month since I had an orgasm! Well frankly, that was not the main reason; I wanted him to be seen by my sister.

That night my sister caught a peek of him beautifully dressed in skirts and pink blouse. I wanted her to come right up in front of him but unfortunately for some reason it didn’t happen that way.
Anyways, the next day I had another contract ready with a witness signature as my sister. He was more concerned about what my sister thought about him - being dressed in such a manner and even asked me several times whether she laughed at him. I just told him to sign it and said I have given few snaps to my sister and next person in line to see his pictures will be his mother-in-law (which he obviously doesn’t want). He was in our room for a long time and finally he did sign the papers. Believe it or not he was quite that whole day. We have changed his name to NATASHA – which sounds more feminine and totally fits him. I’ll be addressing him as HER/SHE /NATASHA in my future posts. And alas we didn’t get the time to make him dress and appear in front of us after the incident as she has to fly in few hours.

I have made her wear pretty panties for over a month. However, I’m still finding it hard to make her use chastity belt as she complains a lot about the sharp edges. She has been wounded quite a lot from it. Dear readers, if you have any suggestions on any other form of tying his cock up, please feel free to leave your suggestions. I would appreciate your sincere suggestions.

It’s not been easy for me, I know I need to stop fearing when she raises her voice. However, I have found a new strength in the latest improvement. Natasha asked me for permission to wear the dresses only on weekends as she doesn’t want this lifestyle to get boring. I agreed for this week. However, I noticed him getting irritated over no particular reason. Thus I’m having second thoughts on his request. What do you think dear readers?

This weekend, I have lined up severe punishments of spanking and followed by household chores! I have noticed on serveral occasions when I come up with new punishments, she's not at all into being punished..which has pissed me off !! For every punishments she has some excuse - this is not good or raises her voice by saying "are u crazy or what!"..It's truely getting on my nerves!

Again please feel free to leave your comments and any other form of punishments appropriate or how I can improve myself...

Love,
Mistress April

A Happy wife = Happy life

2008-10-23T19:52:00.019+11:00

I believe this blog relates more to my feelings, stress and facing problems to make fem/Dom a concrete lifestyle. My husband is still not in the mood to blog yet or in other words not fit to blog!

Just 2 days back, I found out that my hubby masturbated while having his shower. I felt so hurt at that moment - all my energy and cheerfulness was drained. If anyone reading this thinks it’s a small issue which should be ignored and forgiven.. I’m sorry I can’t bring myself to do so until he proves that he meant every word he said yesterday after a long talk.

IF he was a bachelor, I would have been least bothered by his behaviour. However, after marriage his penis and he belongs to his wife COMPLETELY! He has no right to behave in such a manner. Why the hell get the pleasure alone with your imagination when you can get twice the pleasure with a real pretty & sexy wife!

I couldn’t bring myself to shout at him to buzz off or fu** off at that moment. His behaviour has hurt me so badly that I just can’t seem to get back to my normal self. If only he had asked me that he needed to release I would have been more than happy to grant his wish. Further more, he had been quite good for the week and I had told him that he will receive his reward on the weekend. Instead of giving me the pleasure as well he was too selfish to have his own. If he was a true submissive, he would have understood that - putting his Mistress needs first makes both of us happy.

What in fact still hurts me is that - he broke the trust I had in him, promises broken! I was slowly starting to trust him on some things but he seems to have put a stop to it!

We had good long talk yesterday and found myself weeping from the pain. Even then it has not made me feel any better. I find myself still feeling heavy hearted and crying in silence. I have tried to bounce back to my cheerful self but I can’t seem to remove that anger within me. His action has left me so painful and so full of anger!

I’ve yet to see him getting back to his submissive role. I was seriously expecting to see him wear the panties that I got for him, dresses and his chastity belt voluntarily to prove me his love and that his promise he made to me is real. (If you notice, I’m using YET, because I’m still hoping that he’ll change to be a true submissive and not take it as a game).

I have forced him to wear the ladies panty and never will he ever wear his gent’s underwear again! I wish so much to spank him and give him the rightful punishment until my anger subsides! I hope that happens before I go on my 2 weeks vacation.

I wonder whether it’s my mistake for being lenient with him or whether I’m not encouraging him much. However, I know deep down, I have sincerely tried my best and I’m still trying. I might have forced myself to get into this fem/Dom lifestyle in the beginning. However, somewhere in the course of action, I have started to love this lifestyle immensely and desperately want to make it work. Above all reason being - I felt the closeness and love between us when he was obedient. His attention was all on my needs. I felt proud of him and a new found respect towards him for his conduct towards me. I’m sure even he was happy and relaxed seeing me happy.

I remember mentioning to my mom that weekend; I love my life because my husband listens to me. I thanked God for giving me such a wonderful husband whom I don’t have to be a slave to. I had always prayed that I will not have a life like most Indian wife’s who just keep serving their husband’s - sacrificing and burying all their desires just to make sure their marriage doesn’t break up by keeping their husband’s happy. Getting no attention or love in return!

Right now I have no idea where this is leading us. I personally feel lost and hate myself. I resent this failure. But it seems to be out of my control…I’m tired! He has to do his part now!

All I want to say to those men who are not yet married and have submissive feelings – NEVER introduce your future wife to fem/Dom if you want this lifestyle as a game!! If you want to just try it as a game - BUZZ OFF!! Whilst she might start to love the lifestyle and you back off realising you had enough of the game. Isn’t it so totally selfish on your part - ruining your wife’s serenity! Remember she didn’t marry you for your selfishness! If you love her than give her the happiness that she wants and not the other way round.

And if you choose to seriously be a submissive then do a favour to yourself and her – never go back on your word. A man’s word should be his bond – his integrity. When you kneel at your wife’s feet and tell her that you love her and she is the world to you. Trust me; saying sweet nothings is not enough! She needs to see that you mean it. In other words, actions speak louder than words. YOU NEED TO SHOW AND PROVE IT HER!! She needs to SEE the change!

If you want to be a slave then denote what you say. Regardless of your mood or difficulties, serve her needs and pleasures. Remember putting her needs first makes both of you happy. A weak man who changes his mind often is not worth being trained. If a man wants serenity in his marriage, respect and everlasting love from his wife, he needs to keep his wife happy! Sweet talks are not enough. I have mentioned in my earlier blog what you can do to earn her respect and love. If you can’t do such simple things then you are better of being a bachelor – masturbating with your stupid fantasies!

Well, I don’t think I’ll post anything for a while or so..lets see..

Please do leave your comments or suggestions on what can be done. It would be much appreciated to bring a change into my current situation. :) Thank you. Have a great weekend!

- REMEMBER THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS -
A Happy wife = Happy life.

Love,

Mistress April

Respecting Women

2008-10-08T16:15:00.008+11:00

Just a though came to mind while disciplining my husband over an issue. I understand that I was impressed with my husband for his respect towards women. However, I realised that after we got married he doesn’t seem to show me the same respect as he used to show me before marriage. Something happened over the week and I can’t help but think how their behaviour towards their wife changes after marriage. They take their wife’s for granted and show no respect or attention as before. I wonder, guys - All because your wife is next to you now doesn't mean they deserve any less attention than before..do they?

Last weekend my hubby wasn’t feeling well and thus just rested for the entire 2 days. I took care of all the chores and his needs – just like a typical housewife. However, I noticed that, on Monday, he was showing more of his laziness instead of getting his butt back to his role of being a pretty maid. And the following day, his ego got the best of him - being bossy and raising his voice at me over an issue! Just trying to prove me that his decision was final!! I had no say to what I felt!

In addition to that I got so annoyed that, whilst I was interestingly watching a program on TV, he just came up and changed the channel without even being least polite to ask me if he could change the channel! This has happened on various occasions. And when I try to tell him that I was watching the program and it’s just the last little bit left. He either replies “That program is not good” or just ignores my request!

Oh how wish I could spank him at that moment!

I understand some of you might think it’s such a trivial matter, why shouldn’t I just ignore his behaviour and get my butt off and do something else... However, just imagine IF it was someone else in my position at that point of time - his friend, colleague or aunt or for that matter if we were just engaged - would he have behaved in the same manner? I suppose not! I’m sure he would have asked politely before changing the channel. Where did that respect and sensitivity go? And all because he doesn’t like the program doesn’t mean I can’t watch what I like isn’t it? Understanding that each of us has our own likes and dislikes is very important. I find that a spouse who doesn’t respect each others choices are plain selfish! I had to teach my dear maid a good lesson!

Realising that he had enough of resting for the past few days, I decided that he will have to be put in his rightful place soon. I made him dress up in his pretty clothes once he returned from work the next day. And off course handed a list of chores to be completed.

During his disciplinary session, I spanked him so much so that he was whining his legs in pain. I instructed that if he doesn’t stand still, I’ll continue spanking! I remember telling him “If you can’t respect your own wife then it’s of no use even if you respect 1000’s of women outside.” Of course during the session I mentioned his past few days’ intolerable behaviour and what I expect of him.

As a lesson for him, I have decided to post just ONE blurred pretty picture of him this time. If even by mistake he shows me the same attitude - dear readers be prepared to see all his other lovely photos. I assure you, you will love it!! It would be great to expose them to my siblings as well isn’t it?! Haha… Let this be a lesson to him!

Anyways, truth be told, I believe that a man gains his true happiness only when he puts his male ego aside and respects his wife decisions and desires. Getting your way in every single argument doesn’t make you a winner. Submit yourself to your wife without conditions or complains…

True submission comes from serving your wife without the expectation of getting something in return. It is Ok for the man to be honest with her about what motivates him, but he needs to serve her regardless of her or his mood. That is true male submission.

Every woman would have her own desires and wishes. Respect her choices as she would respect yours. I’m sure most of the wife’s out there sacrifice their desires just to please their husband’s.

Instead why not show her your side of submissiveness. Even little things such as

respecting her choices and decisions.
Showing her the respect and attention like you used to show her before marriage.
Listening to her and heeding her advice and decisions! A wife would never expect to cause harm to her husband.

This will surely not obliterate your ego would it? Instead it would give a whole new twist to an understanding and loving relationship! Thus fulfilling your fantasies of submissiveness and bringing out the dominance in your lovely wife.p

A man does not have to lose his masculinity to submit to a woman. He will have to humble himself and lose his male pride and his male ego.

Here’s my pretty maid’s picture. Isn’t she beautiful! Watch out for the next post. I’ve come up with a new name for her which is more feminine :)

Love,

Mistress April

Mistress April – How it all started

2008-10-08T15:45:00.025+11:00

Whilst my slave is being disciplined (corner time after being spanked for his misbehaviour), thus I’m finding some time to blog ;)

As mentioned by my slave I come from a traditionally brought up family - where Men are the masters and Women dancing to their music.

Before marriage I had always secretly prayed to have a husband who would listen to me and give me the freedom to enjoy life as per my wishes. When I met my hubby I was immensely in love with his respect for women. Following our engagement, he always teased me that he would give me a month to become his boss if not he would take over. He mentioned about his fantasies during our 1st few days into our marriage and showed me few websites that he wanted me to visit. He had loads of pictures and spanking videos on his laptop. I admit I was a bit confused and yet loved the fact that he wanted me to be the boss!

First few months into our marriage I tried to surf as many websites on fem/Dom …Ohh I was so confused! But as I kept reading more on them, I tried to gradually understand and started to give few orders to my hubby - like instructing him to use the internet in the given time frame, etc…

When I realised he has a fetish for frilly skirts and blouses, I purchased few skirts and lingeries for him. We slowly discussed on trying the fem/Dom lifestyle on weekends. It wasn’t easy; he used to act according to his mood – on and off. Sometimes he used to dress up in skirts and act as per his wishes - paid so much attention on himself and surfed all kinds of fem/Dom pictures. I, on the contrary, used to eagerly wait for weekends to get into the role and train him and myself in the process. I waited for him to stop surfing those websites with a heavy heart and instead wanted him so desperately to spend time with me and show me that affection, attention and his submissiveness. I was mentally so frustrated.

After few advices from a wonderful lady, Kathy, and an Indian friend, and info from few websites; I was determined to put my hubby in his rightful place as a slave and to make him known of my authority over him.

I locked away all his fetish clothes before hand. Last weekend, I stripped him off his clothes, locked him in his chastity belt and tied him to a chair. I instructed him that unless he obeys me, he will not be allowed to wear his pretty clothes. And if he misbehaved, his little secret will be exposed to his sister. He agreed to my terms. Initially he fought against the training; I was determined not to give up. I gave him a silent treatment for that evening. I guess he realised his mistake and how hurt I was and promised to try his best to serve me.

I told him sternly for the last time - I will decide which dresses he will wear and the training goes according to my instructions and demands. He will have no say what so ever to the orders I give him and he will be punished/ disciplined as per my wishes. If not this fem/Dom lifestyle is over and his pretty clothes will be burnt or torn in front of him. I reminded him that he will be rewarded new dresses only if he behaves and proves his complete servitude towards me. At any point of time he misbehaves, complains or slacks, I will have full privileges to strip him off his clothes. His reply was just “Yes, Mistress”. :)

So my weekend was spent training him to be an obedient maid – to curtsy when he enters or leaves the room, to serve food/ drinks and little speech training. He was spanked and had corner time for any mistakes spotted. He thanked me instantly for disciplining him.I just can’t explain that feeling of immense happiness my heart felt when he submitted selflessly to me. His full attention was on me and my interests. At that moment, my respect and love for him deepened so much more due his actions that I have no words to describe how happy I felt!

After he completed his assigned chores, we spent time watching movies, going out shopping and all his attention was on me during this long weekend. No thoughts of using the internet came up! The 2 days I had great pleasures intimately as well..Haha.. As for his reward he’ll have to prove me his servitude for the week – no whining, no slacking. Truly, I have not been this happy for a long time.

I hope this continues - I’m determined to make this lifestyle work for us. And change my hubby into a perfect maid, myself to be a dominant wife and outgoing person. I love my hubby’s constant encouragement in everything. I sincerely thank Kathy, Aditi and to all the wonderful websites and hope we can help each other to make our life more beautiful and loving each coming day! I would love to know how I can improve, implement other disciplinary actions and make my sessions more interesting to keep him on his toes. So please do feel free to leave your lovely comments :)

PS: I hope when my dear maid reads this, he understands my feelings to get to this stage...Love you & thank you for your understanding and encouragement... muack..

Love,
Mistress April

slave's thoughts

2008-10-06T15:08:00.004+11:00

G’day Dear Readers,

I have been ordered by my Mistress Wife to talk about my recent enslavement under her rule. Not long ago, I was a free man...was able to do as I pleased (We got married recently and as a traditional Asian male, I expected to be the ‘Head of the Household’...) and now here I am dressed in a skirt, blouse and an apron about to head off to my assigned house chores after I introduce myself to you dear readers.

Before I tell you how I got to this point...I would like to inform you about some of my ‘inner’ thoughts.

My Mistress seemed so ‘docile and innocent’ before the marraige (She was brought up in a traditional asian setup like me, where Women are expected to ‘listen’ to men) and I didn’t realise (until recently...much to my surprise) how wrong I was about her docileness and never would have guessed her inner feminist. Soon after marriage I once mentioned to her offhandedly (although sincerely) about ‘How good the world would be with Female leadership’...This is one thing I sincerely believe in...we men have failed in ‘running’ the world peacefully and often misused our ‘powers’ thoughout history, especailly against Women...I believe that a Female-led world would be peaceful and more productive than the world we live in...the process of ‘healing’ the world (under Female guidance) will take some while (due to the current world issues) and we men have to realise the importance and benefits of a Female-led society by encouraging/accepting Female-dominance in society.

Back to my situation...
Dressed in my feminine clothes I have been completely stripped off my male ego...and my Mistress has commenced my training (Mistress has decided to turn me into an obedient house maid)...I have just realised how hollow my male ego was, as just two days into the training I have been reduced to a subserviant position in our household. Although I did initially fight against the training, Mistress seemed prepared and She demonstrated her control over me by delivering constant spankings and corner time for any mistakes I made/make since the training began.
As instructed by my Mistress, I will keep you informed about my training (to be a Good Husband).

Take care
Regards
Slave Nishy